stirs the pot

Deliberately causes conflict

To stir the pot means to cause trouble or controversy, usually intentionally, by introducing provocative or contentious issues: She’s always stirring the pot at family gatherings.

Related

rock the boat · insinuation · manipulation · agitate · push buttons · rile · backlash · discord · bad blood · mischief · tension · meddling · critique · jest · disrupt · gossip · tea spilling · needle

Opposites
social harmony vs. conflict provocation

stirs the potmakes peace

Resolves conflict amicably

keeps the peace · pours oil on troubled waters · peacemaking · mediates · reconciles

action vs. inaction in social situations

stirs the potlets sleeping dogs lie

Avoids reopening settled matters

keeps one's head down · bites one's tongue · holds one's peace · keeps a low profile · looks the other way

transparency vs. manipulation

stirs the potclears the air

Resolves unspoken conflict

tells it like it is

Family

stir, stirs, stirred, stirring, stirrer, stirrers, pots, potted, potting

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G