playing gooseberry

Unwanted romantic chaperone

Playing gooseberry is being the unwanted third person in the company of a couple who would rather be alone together.

The gooseberry is the awkward extra who intrudes on romantic privacy: I felt like I was playing gooseberry on their date.

Chiefly British.

Related

spare tire · tagging along · awkwardness · tagalong · awkward silence · embarrassment · self-consciousness · resignation · uninvited guest · interloper · observer · bystander · discomfort · exclusion · social outcast · jealousy · matchmaker · loneliness

Opposites
social belonging in romantic contexts

playing gooseberrydouble dating

Two couples socializing together

chaperoning · fitting in

relational status

playing gooseberrygoing steady

Dating one person exclusively

courting

Family

play, playing, played, plays, player, players, playful, playfully, playfulness

Familiarity
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Profile
Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G