pay it forward

Chain of kindness

Pay it forward means to respond to a kindness by helping someone else rather than repaying the original benefactor.

The idea is that good deeds ripple outward through a chain of strangers: Someone paid for my coffee, so I'm paying it forward.

The phrase gained currency from a 2000 film but describes an older concept of generalized reciprocity.

Opposites
direction of reciprocity

pay it forwardpay it back

return the favor · reciprocate · quid pro quo · tit for tat · even the score

generosity vs selfishness

pay it forwardhoard

Hidden accumulated valuables

freeload · stinginess · ingratitude · withhold · selfishness

prosocial vs antisocial chain behavior

pay it forwardvicious cycle

Self-perpetuating harmful pattern

grudge holding

Family

forward, paid, paying, payable, payment, payments, payer, payers, payees

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