non-apology apology

Sorry, not sorry

A non-apology apology expresses regret without accepting responsibility for wrongdoing.

It typically shifts blame to the offended party or circumstances: I'm sorry you feel that way, I'm sorry if anyone was offended, Mistakes were made.

The form mimics genuine apology while avoiding actual admission of fault.

Politicians and public figures favor this when forced to respond to criticism without conceding guilt.

Related

mistakes were made · gaslighting · regret · deflection · evasion · excuse · blame-shifting · weasel words · euphemisms · equivocation · qualifiers · justification · minimization · rationalization · dismissal · sidestepping · non-assumption · face-saving

Opposites
sincerity of remorse

non-apology apologysincere apology

Genuine expression of regret

heartfelt apology · mea culpa · admission of guilt · accountability · making amends

accountability and responsibility

non-apology apologytaking responsibility

accountability · confession · making amends · atonement · reparation

communicative honesty

non-apology apologystraight talk

Honest, direct communication

no excuses · calling a spade a spade · candor

Family

apology, apologies, apologize, apologized, apologizing, apologetic, apologetically, apologist, apologists

Familiarity
Top 500,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G