let one's hair down

Drop all pretenses

To let one's hair down is to relax and behave freely, dropping formality or restraint: After the conference ended, we let our hair down at the hotel bar.

The image is of releasing hair from a formal updo—literally becoming less buttoned-up.

The phrase often implies enjoying oneself after a period of propriety or stress.

relax

unwind

Release accumulated tension

kick back · de-stress · mellow out · ease up · take it easy · laid-back · carefree · casual · uninhibited · comfortable

celebrate

party

Gathering for celebration

have fun · cut loose · go wild · live it up · enjoy oneself · festivity · merrymaking · carouse · frolic · shindig

Opposites
behavioral restraint

let one's hair downkeep up appearances

Pretend all is well

hold back · stand on ceremony · keep one's guard up · keep a stiff upper lip · toe the line

social demeanor

let one's hair downstand on ceremony

Insist on strict formality

keep one's distance · put on airs

Family

lets, letting, ones, hair, hairs, hairy, hairiness, hairier, hairiest

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