know one's place

Respect social hierarchy

To know one's place is to accept one's position in a social hierarchy and behave accordingly—not overstepping, not presuming equality with those above.

The phrase often carries critical undertones, implying someone is being reminded to stay subordinate: She was told to know her place.

It can also describe self-aware deference: He knew his place and didn't speak up at meetings.

Related

dominance · boundaries · unwritten rules · respect · custom · humility · obedience · yes sir · propriety · deference · bow down · self-concept · position · caste · manners · introspection · toe the line · decorum

Opposites
social deference

know one's placeuppity

Arrogantly self-important

put on airs · step out of line · throw one's weight around · rebel · talk back

behavioral propriety

know one's placeoverstep

Exceed proper limits

overreach · take liberties · push one's luck · cross the line · step out of line

ambition and aspiration

know one's placebe ambitious

Desire significant achievement

aim high · punch above one's weight · social climbing · reach for the stars · aspire

Family

know, knows, known, knowing, knowingly, knowledge, knowledgeable, unknowing, unknowingly

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G