kept counsel

Held one's tongue

To keep counsel is to remain silent about something, especially to guard a secret or refrain from sharing one's thoughts.

Someone who has kept counsel has maintained that discretion: She kept her own counsel about what she'd witnessed.

The phrase often implies wisdom in knowing when not to speak.

Related

lips sealed · deliberation · muteness · close-mouthed · poker face · reserve · close to the vest · loyalty · inner circle · discretion · patience · confidentiality · dependability · integrity · reliability · circumspection · quietude · forbearance

Opposites
discretion vs. disclosure

kept counselblabbed

Revealed secrets carelessly

spilled the beans · let the cat out of the bag · blurted out · disclosed · divulged

verbal restraint vs. verbal impulsivity

kept counselblurted out

Uttered impulsively

shot one's mouth off · spoke out of turn · overshared · spilled · gabbed

Family

keep, keeps, keeping, keeper, keepers, kept, counsel, counsels, counseled

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G