keeps one's counsel

Holds thoughts back

To keep one's counsel is to remain silent about one's thoughts, plans, or knowledge—to refrain from sharing what you know or think.

The phrase suggests deliberate discretion rather than mere quietness: She kept her own counsel about her reasons for leaving.

Someone who keeps counsel is guarded, perhaps strategically so.

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circumspection · close-mouthed · diplomacy · deliberation · non-disclosure · behind closed doors · caution · foresight · tact · restraint · secrecy · under wraps · understatement · subtlety · reserve · indirectness · mutedness · tight-lipped

Opposites
discretion vs. disclosure

keeps one's counselblabs

Reveals secrets carelessly

spills the beans · tells all · speaks one's mind · lets the cat out of the bag · blabbermouth

reserve vs. expressiveness

keeps one's counselwears one's heart on one's sleeve

Displays feelings without concealment

speaks one's mind · holds forth · sounds off · vents · opens up

discretion vs. indiscretion

keeps one's counselblabs

Reveals secrets carelessly

gossips · tattles · leaks · lets slip · spills

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G