keeps counsel

Guards private information

To keep counsel is to stay silent about something you know, especially when others might expect you to share it.

Someone who keeps their own counsel thinks things through privately rather than seeking advice: She kept her own counsel about the job offer until she'd made her decision.

The phrase suggests discretion and self-reliance.

Related

confidentiality · need to know · loyalty · concealment · sworn to secrecy · non-disclosure · discernment · tight-lipped · lips sealed · faithfulness · circumspection · trustworthy · reliability · dependability · taciturnity · reserve · close-mouthed · caution

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Opposites
discretion and secrecy

keeps counselgossips

Shares private information

blabs · tells all · spills the beans · lets the cat out of the bag · tattles

communication style

keeps counselovershares

Divulges too much

verbose · garrulous · loquacious · chatty · motormouth

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G