keeping counsel

Holding your tongue

Keeping counsel means staying silent about something you know, especially when discretion is wise or expected.

To keep one's own counsel is to keep thoughts private rather than share them.

A person who keeps counsel guards secrets or refrains from offering opinions: She kept her counsel during the meeting, revealing nothing of her plans.

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prudence · circumspection · self-restraint · withholding · poker face · close-mouthed · privacy · trustworthiness · tight-lipped · non-disclosure · vow of silence · sworn to secrecy · under wraps · integrity · reserve · discretion · tact · deliberation

Opposites
disclosure of information

keeping counselspilling the beans

Disclosing confidential information

blabbing · gossiping · spreading rumors · disclosing · revealing

verbal restraint

keeping counselbabbling

Incoherent or infantile speech

prattling · chattering · speaking out of turn · gabbing · shooting one's mouth off

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G