keep a civil tongue

Mind your manners

To keep a civil tongue is to speak politely and avoid rude or offensive language, especially when provoked or in tense situations.

The phrase usually appears as a command or admonition: Keep a civil tongue in your head.

Someone who fails to keep a civil tongue speaks disrespectfully or loses their temper in speech.

Related

respectfulness · etiquette · good manners · tactfulness · manners · composure · self-control · temperance · tone · restraint · de-escalation · deference · watch your mouth · diplomacy · graciousness · social grace · play nice · speech

Opposites
verbal restraint and politeness

keep a civil tonguehurl insults

berate · bad-mouth · talk trash · mouth off · lash out

emotional self-control in speech

keep a civil tonguefly off the handle

Lose temper suddenly

lose one's temper · explode · rant and rave · let someone have it · blow up

Family

keep, kept, keeper, keepers, keeping, upkeep, gatekeeper, goalkeeper, housekeeper

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G