hurt someone's feelings

Wound their emotions

To hurt someone's feelings is to cause emotional pain through words or actions—by insulting, dismissing, or showing insensitivity: I didn't mean to hurt your feelings when I said the painting needed work.

The phrase implies the injury was to pride or self-worth rather than to deeper emotions like grief or heartbreak.

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harsh words · disappointment · criticism · backhanded compliment · rejection · mockery · mean spirited · low blow · empathy · neglect · insecurity · taking it personally · thoughtlessness · humiliation · indifference · public shaming · sarcasm · communication

Opposites
emotional impact

hurt someone's feelingsmake someone's day

Cause great pleasure

warm someone's heart · lift someone's spirits

relational effect

hurt someone's feelingshandle with care

Instruction for delicate items

emotional protection

hurt someone's feelingscushion the blow

Reduce negative impact

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G