holding the cards

Having the advantage

Holding the cards means having control or advantage in a situation, from card games where the strength of your hand determines your power.

Someone holding the cards can dictate terms or outcomes: Management is holding the cards in these negotiations.

Often appears as holding all the cards, emphasizing complete dominance.

Related
  • handGrasping body part
  • pokerHearth implement for coals
  • dealAgreement or distribution
  • drawCreate with pencil
  • stacked deckPre-arranged cards for cheating

bluffing · poker face · authority · stakes · edge · leverage · upper hand · power play · call the shots · in the driver's seat · ace · ace up sleeve · supremacy · winning hand · dominance · maneuvering · gamble · high stakes

Opposites
power and control

holding the cardspowerless

Lacking strength or authority

over a barrel · helpless · outmatched · at the mercy of · vulnerable

agency and autonomy

holding the cardshands are tied

boxed in · trapped · dependent · impotent · out of control

Family

hold, holding, holds, holder, holders, behold, beholden, withhold, withholds

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G