hector

Intimidate with bluster

To hector is to bully or badger someone with aggressive, persistent pressure: Stop hectoring me about the deadline.

The word implies relentless intimidation rather than physical violence—a boss hectoring employees, a parent hectoring a child about grades.

The hectoring person wears down resistance through sheer persistence. (Capitalized Hector is the Trojan hero.)

intimidate

threaten

Promise harm or punishment

frighten · cow · daunt · overawe · pressure · strong-arm · bulldoze · steamroll · tyrannize · domineer

harangue

lecture

Educational spoken presentation

upbraid · admonish · reproach · rebuke · rail · tirade · browbeat · castigate · lambaste · censure

bully

tormentor

One who causes anguish

antagonist · aggressor · browbeater · badger · nag · hound · pester · plague · victimize · target

Categories
Opposites
communication style

hectorcoax

Persuade by gentle urging

cajole · encourage · entreat · persuade · wheedle

behavioral stance

hectorcower

Shrink back in dread

shrink · submit · skulk · hide · retreat

emotional effect on others

hectorcomfort

Ease or soothing relief

soothe · console · reassure · solace · cheer

Family

hectored, hectoring, hectors

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG