grinned and bore it

Tolerated with composure

Grinned and bore it is the past tense of grin and bear it—to endure something unpleasant with outward cheerfulness or at least without complaint.

The phrase implies stoic acceptance: The service was terrible, but we grinned and bore it.

The grin suggests putting on a brave face rather than genuine happiness.

Related

kept quiet · resilience · politeness · fortitude · discretion · patience · equanimity · tact · diplomacy · self-control · stiff upper lip · put on a brave face · poker face · grit · concealment · determination · calmness · tenacity

Opposites
emotional response to hardship

grinned and bore itmade a scene

Behaved dramatically in public

threw a tantrum · let it all out · vented · broke down · fell apart

coping strategy

grinned and bore itfought back

Defended oneself actively

pushed back · took a stand · protested · walked away · quit

complaint behavior

grinned and bore itgrumbled

Complained in low tones

whined · griped · kvetched · bellyached · aired grievances

Family

grin, grinning, grinned, bore, forbearance

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