goes along to get along

Yields for peace

Goes along to get along describes conforming to group expectations or avoiding conflict in order to maintain social harmony or acceptance.

The phrase characterizes someone who suppresses disagreement or personal preferences rather than risk friction: He's not a leader—he just goes along to get along.

Often implies criticism of excessive compliance or lack of conviction.

Related

tactfulness · self-effacement · play it safe · compromise · groupthink · don't rock the boat · appeasement · bite your tongue · pick your battles · herd mentality · go with the flow · social harmony · placation · deference · peacekeeping · conformity · fit in · conflict avoidance

Opposites
conformity vs. principled resistance

goes along to get alongdissents

Expresses formal disagreement

rebels · resists · conscientious objector · whistleblower · civil disobedience

social strategy

goes along to get alongrocks the boat

Disturbs an established situation

stirs the pot · makes waves · troublemaker · gadfly · rabble-rouser

authenticity vs. conformity

goes along to get alongtrue to oneself

Faithful to personal values

nonconformist · authentic · individualist · free thinker · iconoclast

Family

along, getting, gotten

Familiarity
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Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G