give someone the cold shoulder

Freeze someone out

To give someone the cold shoulder is to deliberately ignore or treat them with unfriendly aloofness.

The expression suggests a physical turning away, presenting one's shoulder rather than facing someone warmly.

It implies intentional snubbing rather than mere inattention.

After the argument, she gave him the cold shoulder for weeks.

I tried to apologize but he just gave me the cold shoulder.

Related

freeze out · shun · silent treatment · rebuff · coldshoulder · stonewalling · ostracize · send to Coventry · cut · coldness · dismissal · cutting ties · disdain · rejection · shut the door · aloofness · keep at arm's length · sidelining

Opposites
social reception and warmth

give someone the cold shoulderembrace

Hold closely in arms

welcome · roll out the red carpet · accept · include · befriend

attention and engagement

give someone the cold shoulderengage

Actively participate or connect

acknowledge · give the time of day · seek out · pursue · hang on every word

attention and acknowledgment

give someone the cold shoulderacknowledge

Confirm receipt or truth

engage · recognize · notice · attend to · heed

Family

givers, someone, colder, coldest, coldly, shoulder, shoulders, shouldered, shouldering

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G