give cold shoulder

Freeze someone out

To give someone the cold shoulder is to treat them with deliberate coldness or dismissive indifference, snubbing them by withholding the warmth you'd show others: After the argument, she gave him the cold shoulder for weeks.

The phrase suggests turning away—offering only a cold, unyielding shoulder rather than facing someone openly.

Related
  • snubDeliberate dismissive rejection
  • ignoreRefuse to notice
  • shunDeliberately keep away
  • rejectDismiss as unsuitable
  • dismissSend away or reject

brush off · rebuff · slight · freeze out · frozen out · ostracize · shut out · avoid · icy · distant · aloof · silent treatment · turn away · blank · look right through · cut · disdain · social exclusion

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Opposites
social reception and warmth

give cold shoulderembrace

Hold closely in arms

roll out the red carpet · befriend · kill with kindness · wine and dine · fete

attention and engagement

give cold shoulderacknowledge

Confirm receipt or truth

seek out · include · lend an ear · befriend · dote on

Family

give, gives, giver, givers, cold, colder, coldest, coldly, coldness

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G