getting one's panties in a bunch

Fussing over nothing

Getting one's panties in a bunch means becoming upset or agitated over something trivial.

The image suggests underwear twisted uncomfortably—minor discomfort treated as crisis.

Usually dismissive, implying the person is overreacting: Don't get your panties in a bunch, it was just a joke.

Variants include panties in a twist or knickers in a twist (British).

Related

making a fuss · flying off the handle · losing one's temper · having a fit · frustration · fussing · having a cow · irritation · indignation · whining · annoyance · brooding · losing one's cool · getting worked up · fretting · sulking · grumbling · throwing a tantrum

Opposites
emotional composure

getting one's panties in a bunchkeeping one's cool

Staying composed when provoked

taking it in stride · chilling out · keeping cool · rolling with the punches · going with the flow

reaction proportionality

getting one's panties in a bunchletting it go

taking it easy · water off a duck's back · rolling with the punches · going with the flow

Family

panties, bunches, bunched

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG