get someone's goat

Deliberately cause vexation

To get someone's goat is to annoy or irritate them, often deliberately: Don't let him get your goat—he's just trying to provoke you.

The phrase suggests successfully finding someone's vulnerability and exploiting it to produce frustration.

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pestering · hit a nerve · antagonism · needling · frustration · provoking · rub the wrong way · irritation · get a rise out of · vexation · taunting · indignation · irk · teasing · peeve · infuriate · nagging · mocking

Opposites
emotional effect on another person

get someone's goatsoothe

Gently ease discomfort

calm · calm down · put at ease · reassure · pacify

interpersonal intention

get someone's goatmollify

Reduce anger or distress

appease · pour oil on troubled waters · smooth someone's feathers · defuse · disarm

Family

goat, someone, somebody, getting, gets, exasperate, scapegoat, someone's, somebody's

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G