fend for yourself

Handle things solo

To fend for yourself is to manage without help from others, especially when such help would normally be expected or available.

The phrase suggests self-reliance born of necessity rather than choice: With both parents working late, the kids learned to fend for themselves.

It often implies making do with limited resources or figuring things out alone.

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scrappy · resourceful · hustle · pull yourself up · struggle · rough it · alone · tough · trial by fire · out in the cold · grit · bootstrap · manage · cope · make do · make ends meet · solo · fly solo

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Opposites
self-reliance vs. dependence

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Obtain by begging

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social integration

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Be rightly placed

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G