douche chills

Vicarious shame response

Douche chills are the visceral cringe or secondhand embarrassment you feel when witnessing someone act obnoxiously self-important, try-hard, or obliviously uncool.

The term combines the dismissive slang *douche* (for an insufferable person) with the physical sensation of discomfort: I got douche chills watching him brag about his car to the waitress.

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making a scene · insincerity · shame · cringe · cringe comedy · discomfort · narcissism · show off · humblebrag · grimacing · wincing · tryhard · awkwardness · awkward silence · self-aggrandizement · humble brag · overconfidence · tone-deafness

Opposites
social comfort response

douche chillswarm fuzzies

Sentimental positive emotions

heartwarming · contact high · frisson · basking

emotional valence

douche chillsdelight

Intense pleasure or satisfaction

admiration · awe · enchantment · swooning · starstruck

Family

douche, chill, douches, chills, chilled, chilling, chilly, chillier, chilliest

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