dances to someone's tune

Does their bidding

To dance to someone's tune is to do what they want, to follow their lead obediently or submissively.

The image is of a puppet or performer controlled by whoever plays the music: After the merger, we all danced to the new CEO's tune.

Often appears with modifiers suggesting reluctant compliance: He didn't like it, but he danced to their tune.

Related
  • submitPresent for consideration
  • kowtowExcessive deference shown physically
  • puppetControlled performing figure
  • marionetteString-controlled theatrical figure
  • beholdenOwing thanks or duty

pull the strings · obey · manipulate · conform · sing from the same hymn sheet · jump through hoops · deferential · rely · supplicant · subjugated · toe the line · depend · lap dog · follow · subordinate · yes man · dominate · servile

Opposites
autonomy and control

dances to someone's tunedoes one's own thing

Acts on personal preference

goes one's own way · independent · autonomous · self-directed · freethinking

defiance vs. obedience

dances to someone's tunerebels

Armed opposition fighters

stands one's ground · digs in one's heels · defiant · insubordinate · mutinous

defiance and resistance

dances to someone's tunerebels

Armed opposition fighters

stands one's ground · pushes back · resists · fights back · digs in one's heels

Family

dance, dances, danced, dancing, dancer, dancers, someone, tuners, attune

Familiarity
Top 500,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G