cosying up to

Getting chummy with

Cosying up to someone is cultivating closeness for personal advantage—flattering a boss, befriending someone influential, or positioning yourself near power.

The phrase carries a note of skepticism about motives: She's been cosying up to the new director.

The American spelling is cozying up to.

Related

affection · ingratiating · appeasing · persuasion · winning over · currying favor · opportunism · buttering up · warmth · quid pro quo · charm · lobbying · sycophancy · complimenting · networking · glad-handing · brown nosing · kissing up

Opposites
social approach/distance

cosying up topushing away

Forcing something back

alienating · shunning · cold-shouldering · rebuffing · spurning

authenticity of engagement

cosying up toleveling with

Speaking honestly to

true friendship

power dynamics

cosying up tostanding up to

Opposing despite intimidation

defying · confronting · challenging · opposing · resisting

Family

cosy, cozy, cosying, cozying, cosied, cozied, cosies, cozies, cosily

Familiarity
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Profile
Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G