chastening

Corrective trial endured

Chastening is discipline or correction that humbles—punishment meant to improve character rather than merely penalize.

The word carries moral weight: a chastening experience, a chastening defeat.

What chastens you leaves you sobered, perhaps wiser: The market crash had a chastening effect on investors.

Related to chaste through the idea of purification.

humbling

humiliation

Loss of dignity

defeat · downfall · embarrassment · disgrace · sobering · subduing · crushing · diminishment · abasement · disillusionment

rebuke

reprimand

Formal expression of disapproval

censure · rebuke · criticism · disapproval · warning · correction · reproach · upbraiding · dressing-down · tongue-lashing

discipline

punishment

Penalty for an offense

chastisement · retribution · deterrence · consequence · penance · penalization · strictness · severity · tough-love · trial

spiritual

repentance

Remorseful rejection of past wrongs

redemption · purification · expiation · absolution · confession · remorse · sackcloth · penitence · mortification · self-denial

reflection

introspection

Observing one's own mind

self-scrutiny · self-questioning · rumination · self-awareness · reconsideration · self-reproach · regret · compunction · conscience · reckoning

Opposites
emotional effect

chasteninguplifting

Emotionally encouraging

heartening · encouraging · cheering · reassuring · inspiring

corrective intent

chasteningencouraging

Giving confidence or hope

rewarding · praising · commending · affirming · complimenting

pride/humility effect

chasteningemboldening

Making more courageous

empowering · inflating · confidence-building · validating · aggrandizing

Family

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