carries a torch

Loves without return

To carry a torch for someone is to harbor romantic feelings for them, especially unrequited or lingering love after a relationship has ended: He's still carrying a torch for his college girlfriend.

The image is of keeping a flame burning—hope that won't die.

Someone who carries a torch is a torchbearer of their own heartache.

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guiding light · loyalty · fervor · nostalgia · admiration · hope · devotion · beacon · light the way · advocacy · flame · perseverance · heartbreak · pining · spark · still waters · steadfastness · zeal

Opposites
emotional attachment

carries a torchover it

No longer affected

moved on · let go · gotten over · indifferent · lost interest

reciprocity of feeling

carries a torchin a relationship

Committed to a partner

together · requited · two-way street · going steady · mutual attraction

emotional valence toward person

carries a torchbears a grudge

despises · loathes · can't stand · hates · scorned

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G