can you help me

Seeking your aid

Can you help me is a standard request for assistance, phrased as a question but functioning as a polite imperative.

The interrogative form softens what might otherwise sound demanding: Can you help me move this weekend?

Often followed by with or an infinitive: Can you help me with my résumé?

Can you help me understand this?

Related
  • askSeek an answer
  • aidSupport given freely
  • empathySharing another's emotions
  • mentorTrusted wisdom-giving advisor
  • teamworkJoint effort toward shared aim

quick question · advise · compassion · clarify · request · patience · rescue · counsel · support · assist · stuck · reassurance · instruct · kindness · comfort · teach · fix · encouragement

Opposites
politeness/directness

can you help medo it

Command to act

direction of assistance

can you help meallow me

Offer to help

self-reliance vs. dependence

can you help meleave me alone

Demand for solitude

go away · no thanks · back off · mind your own business · no thank you

Familiarity
Top 5,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G