butting heads

Locked in disagreement

Butting heads is clashing or arguing, especially repeatedly or stubbornly.

The image comes from rams or goats ramming their heads together in contest.

Two people who butt heads disagree persistently, neither willing to yield: She's always butting heads with her supervisor over deadlines.

The phrase suggests mutual stubbornness rather than one-sided conflict.

Related
  • hornsBony animal projections
  • ramsAdult male sheep
  • clashViolent disagreement or collision
  • pushForce something away
  • shovePush with force

locking horns · forehead · territorial behavior · turf war · argument · social hierarchy · disagree · dispute · stubbornness · power struggle · rivalry · mating rituals · ungulate · standoff · impasse · friction · rutting season · discord

Categories
Opposites
interpersonal harmony

butting headscooperating

Working jointly toward goals

collaborating · working together · seeing eye to eye · getting along · agreeing

communication style

butting headscompromising

Exposing to harm or scandal

yielding · acquiescing · backing down · giving in · accommodating

relational outcome

butting headsclicking

Making short sharp sounds

meshing · gelling · bonding · hitting it off

Family

butt, butting, butted, butts, head, heads, headed, heading, header

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G