bow and scrape

Show excessive deference

To bow and scrape is to be excessively deferential or obsequious—the image is of someone bending forward while dragging a foot backward in an elaborate show of humility.

The phrase is almost always critical, suggesting servility rather than genuine respect: He expected everyone to bow and scrape before him.

I refuse to bow and scrape just to get a promotion.

Related

kiss the ring · truckle · kneel · subservience · obsequious · obeisance · prostration · curtsy · cap in hand · ingratiate · fawn · deference · cringe · humility · respect · meekness · flatter · brown nose

Categories
Opposites
deference and submission

bow and scrapestand tall

Maintain dignity under pressure

defy · stand one's ground · stand up to · assert oneself · rebel

dignity and self-respect

bow and scrapeself-respect

Valuing one's own worth

stand on ceremony · pride · haughtiness · swagger · strut

flattery vs. bluntness

bow and scrapespeak truth to power

Criticize those in charge

tell it like it is · speak plainly · speak one's mind · call a spade a spade · not mince words

Family

bows, bowed, bowing, scrape, scrapes, scraped, scraping, scraper, scrapers

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G