ask for it

Beg for consequences

To ask for it is to behave in a way that invites trouble or negative consequences: He left his car unlocked in that neighborhood—he was asking for it.

The phrase often carries a judgmental tone, implying the person deserved what happened.

Controversially applied to victims of crimes or misfortune, where it functions as victim-blaming: She was asking for it said of assault victims is widely condemned as shifting responsibility from perpetrator to victim.

provoke

taunt

Insulting provocation

bait · tempt fate · push buttons · play with fire · poke the bear · reckless · foolhardy · rash · brazen · audacious

consequence

repercussion

Indirect result of action

fallout · ramification · aftermath · karma · payback · comeuppance · retribution · blowback · boomerang · just deserts

Opposites
prudence and caution

ask for itplay it safe

Avoid unnecessary chances

be careful · err on the side of caution · watch your step · hedge your bets · tread carefully

deservingness of consequences

ask for itplay it safe

Avoid unnecessary chances

cautious · careful · prudent · mind one's own business · circumspect

blame and responsibility

ask for itblameless

Free of wrongdoing

guiltless · faultless · undeserving · wronged · victimized

Family

ask, for, asked, asking, asks, unasked, askers, asking for it

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13