wall flower

Loner at dances

A wallflower is someone who stays on the sidelines at social gatherings, particularly at dances—sitting or standing against the wall rather than participating.

The term suggests shyness or social awkwardness: She spent prom as a wallflower, watching others dance.

The original wallflower is a fragrant garden plant that grows on walls and rocks.

Related

shyness · bloom · shy · garden plant · cottage garden · reticence · reservedness · corner · social gathering · dance · pale · bud · solitude · awkwardness · daisy · social anxiety · sidelines · left out

Opposites
social visibility and engagement

wall flowerlife of the party

Most entertaining guest

center of attention · social butterfly · attention seeker · showoff · show-off

personality temperament

wall flowerextrovert

One who seeks company

bold · confident · uninhibited · brash · forward

social role/archetype

wall flowerringleader

Chief organizer of wrongdoing

master of ceremonies · MC · host · hostess · entertainer

Family

wallflowers

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G