waking up and smelling the coffee

Finally facing reality

Waking up and smelling the coffee means becoming aware of reality, especially an unpleasant truth one has been avoiding or ignoring.

The phrase implies someone has been naive or oblivious: It's time you woke up and smelled the coffee—he's not going to change.

Usually delivered as advice or admonishment, often in the imperative: Wake up and smell the coffee!

Related

insight · open your eyes · self-awareness · acknowledgment · discernment · face the music · aroma · snap out of it · turning point · reality check · harsh truth · bitter pill · get real · breakthrough · shift · fresh start · caffeine · mindfulness

Opposites
awareness and realization

waking up and smelling the coffeeburying one's head in the sand

Ignoring obvious problems deliberately

turning a blind eye · looking the other way · living in a bubble · daydreaming

engagement with reality

waking up and smelling the coffeesticking one's head in the sand

Deliberate avoidance of facts

living in a bubble · wearing rose-colored glasses · wishful thinking · whistling past the graveyard · daydreaming

Family

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Familiarity
Top 500,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G