upping the ante

Increasing the bet

Upping the ante means raising the stakes or increasing what's at risk in a situation.

The phrase comes from poker, where the ante is the initial bet required to play.

Beyond gambling, it describes escalating demands, commitments, or intensity: The company upped the ante by offering free shipping.

Each side kept upping the ante until negotiations collapsed.

Related

escalate · straddle · gamble · brinkmanship · arms race · enhance · power plays · power move · magnify · calculated risk · elevate · high stakes · skin in the game · one-upmanship · raise the stakes · upgrade · competitive spirit · all in

Opposites
escalation/de-escalation

upping the antebacking down

Withdrawing from a stance

de-escalating · scaling back · standing down · letting it go · pulling back

commitment/investment

upping the antefolding

Bending something over itself

cutting one's losses · bowing out · withdrawing · pulling out · walking away

aggression/confrontation

upping the antebacking off

Ceasing to pursue

caving in · yielding · capitulating · conceding · surrendering

Family

ante, upped, upper, upward, upwards, antes, anted, anteing

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G