telling tales out of school

Betraying private information

Telling tales out of school is revealing information that was meant to stay private, especially gossip or secrets from within a group.

The phrase suggests betraying confidences—sharing what happened behind closed doors with outsiders: I don't want to tell tales out of school, but the board meeting was a disaster.

Related

breach of trust · backlash · chatter · loose-lipped · kiss and tell · dirty laundry · privacy · embarrassment · grapevine · office gossip · scandal · innuendo · secrecy · behind closed doors · whispering · whisper campaign · loose lips · betrayal

Opposites
discretion and confidentiality

telling tales out of schoolkeeping mum

Staying deliberately silent

discretion · saying nothing · keeping one's own counsel · keeping one's counsel · silence

loyalty and betrayal

telling tales out of schoolloyalty

Faithful commitment to another

keeping faith · omertà · keeping the faith · having someone's back · solidarity

Family

telling, teller, tellers, outmost, outermost, school, schools, schooled, schooling

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G