tearing someone a new asshole

Verbally destroying someone

Tearing someone a new asshole is a vulgar expression meaning to severely reprimand or verbally attack someone.

The imagery suggests violence so intense it creates a second orifice.

It typically describes an authority figure unleashing fury on a subordinate: The coach tore him a new asshole after he missed that easy catch.

The phrase emphasizes the extremity of the criticism—not just a scolding but a thorough, devastating dressing-down.

Related

reading the riot act · public shaming · fury · outrage · frustration · criticism · colloquial language · bollocking · workplace disputes · confrontation · heated exchange · harsh words · hostility · informal speech · disciplinary actions · tirade · lambasting · losing one's shit

Opposites
intensity of criticism

tearing someone a new assholeconstructive criticism

Fault-finding aimed at improvement

sugarcoating · measured response · looking the other way

emotional tone of interaction

tearing someone a new assholepraising

Voicing admiration

complimenting · soothing · comforting · encouraging · reassuring

social effect on recipient

tearing someone a new assholeputting on a pedestal

Revering someone unrealistically

honoring · celebrating · validating · affirming · encouraging

Family

tearing, tearer, someone, newness, renewal, asshole

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Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated R