take pity

Feel for someone

To take pity on someone is to feel compassion for their suffering and act on it—usually by helping, sparing, or showing mercy: She took pity on the stray cat and brought it inside, The judge took pity on the defendant and reduced the sentence.

The phrase implies the person deserves sympathy, though it can carry a slight note of condescension—the one taking pity holds power over the one receiving it.

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compassion · feel sorry for · poor soul · clemency · leniency · empathy · soft spot · spare · benevolence · pardon · magnanimity · tenderness · forgiveness · act of kindness · kindness · beggar · vulnerability · adversity

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Opposites
emotional response to suffering

take pityturn a deaf ear

Intentionally refuse to listen

steel oneself · turn one's back on · spurn · dismiss · disregard

action toward the vulnerable

take pityexploit

Notable act or abuse

take advantage of · prey upon · torment · persecute · oppress

emotional disposition

take pitygloat

Relish superiority smugly

despise · scorn · mock

Family

take, pity, taken, taking, overtake, takes, undertake, retake, taker

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G