special snowflake

Self-declared exception

Special snowflake is a dismissive term for someone who considers themselves uniquely deserving of attention or accommodation.

It mocks perceived entitlement or oversensitivity: She thinks she's a special snowflake who shouldn't have to follow the rules.

The phrase draws on the idea that every snowflake is unique—turned sarcastic to suggest the person's self-regard is unwarranted.

entitled

privileged

Having special advantages

pamperedLavished with indulgence
spoiledRuined or overindulged
narcissisticObsessed with one's image

self-important · demanding · high-maintenance · coddled · sheltered · oversensitive · thin-skinned · whiny · petulant · tantrum

delicate

fragile

Easily broken or damaged

brittleLiable to shatter
tenderSoft or sore
daintyDelicately small and pretty

frail · gossamer · ethereal · wispy · feathery · lacy · crystalline · intricate · fleeting · melting

individualist

unique

Only one exists

one-of-a-kindHaving no equivalent
distinctiveReadily identifiable, set apart
nonconformistRejects prevailing social standards

eccentric · quirky · original · singular · exceptional · idiosyncratic · misunderstood · different · alternative · countercultural

Categories

self-deceptiondenial, delusion, wishful thinking, rationalization, willful blindness

Opposites

individuality vs. conformity

special snowflaketeam player

One who collaborates willingly

everyman · regular Joe · average Joe · nobody special · conformist

emotional resilience

special snowflaketough cookie

Resilient, unyielding person

hard-ass · thick skin · stoic · survivor · trooper

entitlement vs. humility

special snowflakesalt of the earth

Fundamentally decent, reliable people

working stiff · grunt · foot soldier · good sport

Family

special, specially, specialize, specialization, specialized, specializing, specialist, specialists, speciality

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