hard-ass

Uncompromising tough person

A hard-ass is someone who is strict, uncompromising, and demanding—typically a boss, coach, teacher, or authority figure who refuses to make exceptions or show leniency.

The term can be mildly vulgar but is common in casual speech.

It functions both as a noun and as an adjective (often hyphenated): My drill sergeant was a total hard-ass; She has a hard-ass management style.

The term sometimes carries grudging respect for someone's toughness.

disciplinarian

strict

Rigorous, without flexibility

drill sergeant · taskmaster · authoritarian · no-nonsense · inflexible · rigid · harsh · stern · exacting · unyielding

attitude

stubborn

Refusing to change course

hardheaded · difficult · uncooperative · intractable · unmovable · defiant · contrary · ornery · cantankerous · mulish

Opposites
interpersonal strictness

hard-asspushover

Easily defeated opponent

softie · soft touch · easy mark · doormat · lenient

emotional demeanor

hard-asssweetheart

Affectionate name for beloved

teddy bear · gentle soul · marshmallow · pussycat · warm and fuzzy

emotional warmth and approachability

hard-asssweetheart

Affectionate name for beloved

teddy bear · softy · gentle soul · warm · nurturing

Family

hard, ass, harder, hardest, hardly, hardness, harden, hardened, hardening

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