sowed one's wild oats

Had reckless youth

Sowed one's wild oats means indulged in youthful excess, especially sexual adventuring, before settling into responsible adulthood.

The phrase implies a period of reckless behavior that one eventually outgrows: He sowed his wild oats in college before becoming a family man.

Often used to excuse or dismiss past indiscretions as a normal phase.

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burning the candle at both ends · regret · early adulthood · nostalgia · impulsivity · adolescence · playing with fire · hedonism · coming-of-age · thrill-seeking · letting loose · living it up · carefree days · irresponsibility · maturity · self-discovery · finding oneself · emotional scars

Opposites
behavioral restraint

sowed one's wild oatsplayed it safe

Acted to minimize risk

toed the line · kept one's head down

lifestyle trajectory

sowed one's wild oatsput down roots

Establish a permanent home

Family

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