skunk at a garden party

Social gathering disaster

A skunk at a garden party is someone whose presence ruins an otherwise pleasant gathering—unwelcome, impossible to ignore, and likely to drive others away.

The phrase describes anyone who spoils a social occasion by being offensive, disruptive, or simply wrong for the setting: His bringing up the lawsuit made him the skunk at the garden party.

Related

killjoy · spoilsport · unwelcome guest · nuisance · sour note · bad apple · disruption · monkey wrench · bull in a china shop · Debbie Downer · faux pas · stick in the mud · elephant in the room · wet blanket · turd in the punchbowl · embarrassment · black sheep · odd man out

Opposites
social welcome and fit

skunk at a garden partyguest of honor

Celebrated person at event

life of the party · belle of the ball · breath of fresh air · VIP · star attraction

social harmony vs. disruption

skunk at a garden partypeacemaker

Conflict resolution agent

crowd pleaser · harmonizer · ice breaker · good sport · team player

social fit/belonging

skunk at a garden partyperfect fit

one of us · right at home · in one's element · part of the furniture · old friend

Family

skunk, skunks, skunked, skunking, garden, gardens, gardener, gardeners, gardening

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G