sitting on one's hands

Refusing to act

To sit on one's hands is to refrain from acting when action is expected or needed—to remain passive, hold back applause, or refuse to participate.

The image is of someone keeping their hands unavailable: Congress sat on its hands while the crisis deepened.

In literal use, an audience sitting on their hands declines to clap.

Related

indecision · cold feet · apathy · reluctance · doubt · bystander effect · standing by · inertia · asleep at the wheel · stagnation · neglect · vacillation · avoidance · prudence · playing it safe · procrastination · dragging feet · nonintervention

Opposites
action vs inaction

sitting on one's handstaking action

Initiating purposeful effort

acting · jumping in · stepping up · intervening · rolling up one's sleeves

initiative and proactivity

sitting on one's handstaking initiative

Acting without external direction

taking charge · going for it · blazing a trail · carpe diem · taking the bull by the horns

engagement and effort

sitting on one's handsgoing all out

Exerting total effort

putting in the work · hustling · grinding · going the extra mile · pulling one's weight

Family

sitter, sitters, sitting, hands, handed, handing, handily, handiness

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G