shitting match

Crude verbal battle

A shitting match is a heated, unproductive argument where both sides fling accusations or insults without resolving anything—like animals flinging waste at each other.

The phrase emphasizes the degrading, pointless nature of the exchange: The debate devolved into a shitting match over who was more to blame.

Also called a pissing match, with similar connotations.

Related

dispute · tit-for-tat · war of words · debate · squabble · acrimony · pissing contest · name-calling · clash · contention · verbal sparring · pissing war · dick-measuring contest · fight · blow-up · confrontation · spat · conflict

Opposites
discourse civility

shitting matchreasoned argument

Position backed by logic

Socratic dialogue · academic debate · rational discourse · parliamentary debate

conflict resolution approach

shitting matchmediation

Intervention to resolve conflict

negotiation · conflict resolution · peace talks · consensus-building · reconciliation

discourse quality

shitting matchcivil discourse

Respectful exchange of views

polite conversation · reasoned argument · Socratic dialogue · scholarly debate · intellectual discourse

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated R