self-pityingly

In martyred fashion

In a manner expressing or displaying excessive sorrow over one's own troubles.

The word carries a note of criticism—self-pity is rarely admired: She spoke self-pityingly about her failed marriage, He self-pityingly declared that no one understood him.

emotional-tone

wallowing

Indulging without restraint

whimpering · sighing · lamenting · moaning · complaining · whining · morose · dejected · despondent · forlorn

expression

sobbing

Convulsive crying aloud

bewailing · blubbering · maudlin · melodramatic · theatrical · histrionic · overwrought · dramatic · exaggerated · performative

victimhood

martyrdom

Suffering for conviction

grievance · persecution · resentment · defeatism · hopelessness · bitterness · injustice · suffering · complaint · aggrievement

self-focus

narcissistic

Obsessed with one's image

Opposites
emotional resilience and self-regard in adversity

self-pityinglystoically

With unemotional endurance

uncomplainingly · resignedly · bravely · courageously · resiliently

orientation toward self vs. others in suffering

self-pityinglyselflessly

Without personal gain motive

magnanimously · compassionately · empathetically · generously · altruistically

Family

self, pity, selves, pitied, pities, pitying, pitiful, pitifully, pitiable

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G