plays the field

Avoids romantic commitment

To play the field is to date multiple people rather than committing to one, keeping romantic options open: She's not ready to settle down—she's still playing the field.

The metaphor comes from sports, suggesting someone who covers the whole field rather than staying in one position.

Extended uses describe anyone exploring many options before choosing: He's playing the field with job offers.

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no strings attached · dance · spark · opportunism · versatility · open-mindedness · open relationship · polyamory · exploration · adaptability · experimentation · risk-taking · keeping options open · smile · mingling · curiosity · wink · adventurousness

Opposites
romantic commitment

plays the fieldcommits

Pledges to do

settles down · monogamous · faithful · exclusive · devoted

relationship stability

plays the fieldputs down roots

married · settles down · nests · stays put · settled

Family

play, plays, played, playing, player, players, playful, playfully, playfulness

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG