playing at

Not truly committed

Playing at describes doing something without real commitment or seriousness—pretending or dabbling rather than genuinely engaging.

Children play at being doctors or soldiers.

Adults who are just playing at a profession or skill lack the dedication of true practitioners.

The phrase often carries dismissiveness: He's not a real chef, he's playing at it.

Related

make-believe · masquerading · charade · drama · posturing · feigning · imitation · bluffing · tinkering · half-hearted · not serious · dilettantism · dissembling · dabbling · having a go · fooling around · impersonating · mimicking

Opposites
commitment and genuineness

playing atmastering

Attaining full command

making a career of

commitment/seriousness

playing atall in

Fully committed, nothing reserved

going all out

authenticity/genuineness

playing atembodying

Giving physical form to

inhabiting · walking the walk

Family

play, playing, played, plays, player, players, playful, playfully, playfulness

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G