play it cool

Feign casual indifference

To play it cool is to remain calm and composed, especially when you might naturally feel anxious, eager, or emotional.

The phrase often suggests strategic restraint—not revealing excitement or interest: She was dying to call him back, but decided to play it cool.

It can also mean staying calm under pressure: When the cops showed up, he played it cool.

composure

unflappable

Impossible to disturb

coolheaded · self-possessed · steady · controlled · self-controlled · measured · equanimous · unbothered · unruffled · imperturbable

detachment

nonchalant

Calmly unconcerned

dispassionate · unconcerned · blasé · casual · offhand · unbothered · unimpressed · poker-faced · deadpan · expressionless

discretion

subtle

Not immediately obvious

cautious · prudent · circumspect · tactful · diplomatic · reserved · restrained · strategic · calculated · shrewd

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Opposites
emotional display

play it coollose one's cool

Become visibly upset

freak out · have a meltdown · flip out · fly off the handle · blow up

behavioral strategy

play it cooljump the gun

Start before permitted

show one's hand · tip one's hand · overplay one's hand · fly by the seat of one's pants · rush in

urgency and alarm

play it coolpanic

Uncontrollable sudden fear

freak out · lose one's head · run around like a chicken with its head cut off · sound the alarm · raise hell

Family

play, cool, plays, played, playing, player, players, playful, playfully

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G