passive-aggressive remark

Polite-sounding insult delivered

A passive-aggressive remark expresses hostility indirectly—through implication, false sweetness, or plausible deniability rather than open confrontation.

The speaker can claim innocence while landing a blow: That's a bold choice, I wish I could be as carefree as you about deadlines, No, it's fine, I'll just do it myself.

The aggression hides behind politeness or apparent concern.

Related

jab · dig · underhanded · snark · barb · cutting · veiled · insinuation · just saying · no offense but · subtle · bless your heart · resentful · bitter · if you say so · condescending · patronizing · dismissive

Opposites
communicative directness

passive-aggressive remarkstraight talk

Honest, direct communication

telling it like it is · harsh truth · brutal honesty

emotional valence/intent

passive-aggressive remarkkind words

positive feedback · well-wishing · blessing

honesty/authenticity

passive-aggressive remarkplain truth

Honest, unembellished reality

open communication · unvarnished truth

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