offish

Not warmly welcoming

Offish is an informal, slightly old-fashioned way of saying standoffish—distant, cool, or unfriendly in manner: She seemed a bit offish when I tried to make conversation.

The word suggests someone holding themselves apart without being overtly rude.

aloof

standoffish

Unfriendly in manner

remote · cool · reserved · unfriendly · unsociable · unapproachable · cold · stiff · formal · impersonal

reserved

reticent

Disinclined to speak freely

private · restrained · inhibited · introverted · shy · tight-lipped · uncommunicative · secretive · circumspect · cautious

indifferent

uninterested

Lacking curiosity or concern

dispassionate · blasé · phlegmatic · insouciant · unmoved · unresponsive · lukewarm · tepid · perfunctory · dismissive

Opposites
interpersonal warmth

offishwarm

Moderately heated, or friendly

friendly · welcoming · approachable · cordial · affable

social accessibility

offishapproachable

Easy to engage with

welcoming · accessible · inviting · open · receptive

Phrases
Family

office, officer, official, officially, offing, officialdom

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G