negged

Undermined with criticism

Negged is the past tense of neg, slang from pickup artist culture meaning to deliver a backhanded compliment or subtle insult designed to undermine someone's confidence and make them seek your approval.

The technique targets romantic interests: He negged her about her outfit, hoping she'd try harder to impress him.

Outside pickup contexts, neg has broadened to mean any deliberate undermining remark.

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backhanded

Deceptively unkind praise

pickup artist · attraction · flirting · tactics · strategy · undermining · insult · confidence · game · interaction

criticized

insulted

Offended by disrespect

ridiculed · demeaned · disparaged · slighted · disrespected · condescended · patronized · undermined · torn down · roasted

rejected

spurned

Rejected with contempt

shot down · brushed off · ignored · snubbed · declined · refused · dejected · crushed · humiliated · embarrassed

Opposites
intent and effect on recipient's self-esteem

neggedcomplimented

Offered kind remarks

praised · uplifted · encouraged · validated · flattered

Family

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Used worldwide · Negative · Rated PG