mended fences

Patched up differences

Mended fences are relationships that have been repaired after conflict or estrangement.

The phrase comes from mend fences, meaning to restore good relations with someone you've quarreled with or neglected: After the divorce, she worked on mending fences with her in-laws.

The expression evokes the practical wisdom that good neighbors maintain their shared boundaries.

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cleared the air · amended · peace offering · repair · fix · mediation · reconciliation · forgiveness · renewal · post · peacemaking · negotiation · trust-building · wire · boards · restoration · nails · hammer

Opposites
relational reconciliation

mended fencesburned bridges

Destroyed relationships permanently

cold shoulder · unresolved conflict

diplomatic/political relations

mended fencesdeclared war

Formally announced military aggression

cold war · trade war · stonewalled

relational repair

mended fencesburned bridges

Destroyed relationships permanently

stonewalled · cut ties

Family

mend, mended, mends, mending, mendable, unmended, fence, fences, fenced

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G